Needs Clarity

Sometimes, life offers much of what we didn't expect before. Just like some happenings in our lives that hard to figure out. Same also as meeting different people. Some of them are just around but never been the closest person we used to have, others easily come but then suddenly gone by any moment. It seems that opportunity looses its way when we try to ignore and mow ourselves with what we exactly feel for a person. Until we suffer from our own damnation every time we missed and looses courage to say the right words. Then here comes the state where this inanimate fellow of ours is already tired of waiting and expecting things to happen from you...If you were to ask, how will you able to win that beings heart again if his heart has finally beat for someone else, and sad to say it's not you! will you be able nab and teach your heart in loving that person?
Well well well, people are definitely hypocrites crucifying and torturing themselves with what they used to do and it's like hell competing with their own dilemmas in order to surpass the challenges of life. But of all this happenings, we as human beings were destined and chosen as the decipher of our own journey. With this life we have, we must expect that different aspects or things changes or rather never remains from what or where it started, but then finds its way to discern or perceive the best solution...Just like in loving a person, it took us number of incidents and heartaches to feel and find out how we love that person so much. Often times, we need to get hurt and sometimes we have to drop tears and cry like a boohoo in order for the pain to subside. With all this heartaches, moving on, forgiving and forgetting are the beast remedy for this kind of perplexing questions that continuously ruins our minds.