Needs Clarity

Sometimes, life offers much of what we didn't expect before. Just like some happenings in our lives that hard to figure out. Same also as meeting different people. Some of them are just around but never been the closest person we used to have, others easily come but then suddenly gone by any moment. It seems that opportunity looses its way when we try to ignore and mow ourselves with what we exactly feel for a person. Until we suffer from our own damnation every time we missed and looses courage to say the right words. Then here comes the state where this inanimate fellow of ours is already tired of waiting and expecting things to happen from you...If you were to ask, how will you able to win that beings heart again if his heart has finally beat for someone else, and sad to say it's not you! will you be able nab and teach your heart in loving that person?
Well well well, people are definitely hypocrites crucifying and torturing themselves with what they used to do and it's like hell competing with their own dilemmas in order to surpass the challenges of life. But of all this happenings, we as human beings were destined and chosen as the decipher of our own journey. With this life we have, we must expect that different aspects or things changes or rather never remains from what or where it started, but then finds its way to discern or perceive the best solution...Just like in loving a person, it took us number of incidents and heartaches to feel and find out how we love that person so much. Often times, we need to get hurt and sometimes we have to drop tears and cry like a boohoo in order for the pain to subside. With all this heartaches, moving on, forgiving and forgetting are the beast remedy for this kind of perplexing questions that continuously ruins our minds.

Thinkers are Doers

Thinkers, doers, taking risks and creating your future!

“Mr. Drucker, how can I create something that will change the world?”

The answer of Mr. Drucker was as simple:

“Young boy: by thinking about something that would help people; and by doing it.”

There are thinkers, and there are doers. Thinking is great, many people have great ideas to change the, or their, world; but what these ideas worth if nobody is doing them?

If you have an idea to change the World, or an idea to change your world, the only person that can make it happen is yourself. You have to do it to make it happen: this is the only way. People can help you, sure, but the only person that can archive it is the idea’s originator, the person that has it and believes in it.

Doing something also bring risks. All actions have his lot of risks. Any action you undertake can lead to a success or a failure. The risks that you take are that the actions undertook failed.

Personally I see failure as an essential part of learning. I fail therefore I learn. It is probably why I take risks and that I can live with my failures: because I know that I learned from taking these risks, doing these actions, and failing in some way.

However, is because you do not take risks that you do not fail?

“People who don’t take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year.
- Peter F. Drucker

Taking risks, doing actions, succeeding or failing, will inevitably change your future. However, what this future will be? What it could be? Will it be better or worse than your current situation? Will you be happier or not?

“The only thing we know about the future is that it will be different.”
- Peter F. Drucker

Personally I believe in something: if I take risks, if I make decisions, if I do actions, and if I succeed or I fail, I do it for one thing: to try to predict the future to make me liking my life.

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”
- Peter F. Drucker

“When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.”
- Steve Jobs

Finally, you have to do it for yourself; you have to get rid of the social pressure that could urge you to do what everybody else does. Live your own life, not the one of your society, your neighborhood, your friends, your family or parents wants you to have.

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. ”
- Steve Jobs

"The Love That Wasn't Meant For Us"

The life I had before enrolling this institution whereI belong right now is incomparable. I can describemy existense asunwanted, that I am nobody to other people and has nothing to do in this world. I can say thosetimes that I am a pesemistic kind of person. My outlooks about love and life were so unclear. That I always asks myself "why do we need to love and to be loved by other people and; "why life issometimes unfair to us? "

Until such time came and I met a guywhobrought difference and alterations to me as a being. The place and the time when we met eachother was not proper. But it seems that destiny and love became playful to us. The friendship we built deepens into a serious relationship. Without knowing that one morning we woke up and just realized that we are falling inlove for each other. Sad to say, the guy that I am talking was my own teacher. I admit that I made a big mistake to my parents for not telling them the whole truth that I'm in a relationship with my teacher. And we both knew to ourselves that our relationship was forbidden, but then we still continue what we had.

Manypeople judge me for having him aspartof my life.Even my own friends and clasmates rose their eyebrows from the day they knew the whole story. But I never mind them with what they are saying and all I know that time is I love him.

Days came and we started to have some arguements regarding our age gap, our status and with his real intensions to me. Until it came to the point that we can't resist and resolve those problems. Unfortunately, we broke up and decided to have separate lives and to focus to our fields.

Days or month later, I heard that he is getting married to other girl. The first time I knew it,of course I'm in a big surprise and it hurts a lot.That I can't believe that in just a short time, he easily find someone and I am thinking that when we are still together, there's another girl also...Many questions ruined my mind but we can't go back in the time we had but those burdens about love served as my inspiration and I learned more about lovefor having him.

I Never Regret Having Him

The life I had before entering in this institution is not the same as what I have right now. During my high school years I considered myself as a loner yet happy go lucky kind of person. That I'm always thinking that I am unwanted in this world,everything that surrounds me are threat and I always worry about what the people might say or comment to me. Until such time that I enrolled in the school where I belong right now and then I met a guy that I must never meet during those times...That person I am talking about is a teacher. He courted me, but at the first time, I doubted his intentions. I admit it that student-teacher affair is prohibited. But what can I do, I'm only human that often commit mistakes.

As entering in that relationship, I encountered lots and several criticism from other people.That I am loosing my faith and hope to rescue that relationship... I am full of regrets that even in my own, I failed to protect him and we broke up! That we never fought our love for each other because there were issues that impedes our relationship.

But now I am happy for the life he chose! though we didn't click for each other we still remain as friends!!!...

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